Reflecting on the Year and Dreaming Ahead
Every year, as the calendar winds down, I take a moment to pause and reflect. This practice started in my twenties, during a time when life felt chaotic and full of responsibilities. I had just begun my career, and naturally, I had my hands in many projects. Year after year, I could see how my work was a living, breathing thing. Each year, I built on the one before it.
To keep track of my ideas and ensure I was focusing on what truly mattered, I began creating simple wish lists. These weren’t just lists of things I wanted; they were a way to prioritize and dream forward for the year ahead.
What began as a personal tradition quickly turned into a powerful tool for creating movement and progress—even at work. I shared the idea with my boss, and soon it became a practice for our entire team. Reflecting on what we needed and desired gave us clarity and direction, both individually and as a business.
Over the years, this tradition has stayed with me. It’s not about setting rigid goals or making resolutions. It’s about listening to what I truly want and letting that guide me forward. My wish lists are a mix of practical needs, heartfelt dreams, and the occasional “why not?” item—because dreaming big is always worth it.
How to Start Your Own Wish List Tradition
1. Reflect on the Year
Take a look back at what went well and what felt out of alignment. Celebrate your wins, and gently acknowledge the lessons. Even if something didn’t go as planned, there’s always an opportunity to learn more about yourself.
2. Tune In to Your Desires
Ask yourself: What do you truly want—not what others expect, but what makes your heart sing? Would you like to start taking care of yourself more? Is there someone you’re missing? Or… is there someone you want to miss? (LOL! It happens, you know!)
3. Write It Down
Create a list that blends tangible goals, personal growth aspirations, and maybe a few fun, dream-worthy items.
4. Revisit and Refine (or Don’t!)
Your list isn’t set in stone. It’s a living document that can grow and change with you. And here’s the magic: you don’t even have to look at it again. In my experience, it’s amazing how many wishes come true even if you never revisit them.
Dream Big and Stay Grounded
For me, these wish lists are a way to stay grounded while still dreaming forward. They’re not about chasing something external. They’re about getting in touch with myself, aligning with what feels true, and staying excited about the possibilities ahead.
And here’s the best part: while I love to create wish lists at the end of the year, you can do this anytime. I invite you to try it. Give yourself permission to reflect, dream, and create your own wish list.
Who knows where it might take you? I’d love to hear how it turned out—so feel free to share your experience!
P.S. If you liked this article, I think you’ll appreciate Anna’s take on happiness. In her piece, “Is there a Road to Happiness?”, explores the layers of thought and how they shape our experience of joy, love, and even self-compassion.
